Switching off power to the charger is probably not the best way to accomplish the desired goal.
There are ways to tell the chargers or the car to draw less power for load balancing reasons.
You have 2 72A chargers on a 90A feeder. They already need to be communicating with each other to prevent overload.
Look up OCPP and the Charge HQ app.
Note: I have no direct experience with this and am leery of the security implications of the Charge HQ app. Just want to suggest an alternative approach before you re-invent the wheel.
Jon
Thanks Jon. It's a creative suggestion, but I don't think it would work too well in practice. Each time you want to use the steamer, you'd need to launch the app and turn off vehicle charging for both vehicles (and reverse the process after completion). And if you forgot to do this and turned on the steamer, it would trip the main breaker.
Your suggestion did motivate me to explore using the Tesla charger's communication interface which as you say is used for load balancing. I did find an approach that uses a raspberry pi single-board computer to control the available power to the Tesla chargers. Here's the video:
Using this method, I sketched out a possible approach for my specific use-case (see attached diagram). I'm not sure what the implications would be here for passing electrical inspection from the local authority.