Maybe easier to see, but without the mathematical rigor in a simpler, non-balanced situation:
Consider only two loads, A to C and B to C. Each 80 amps.
The current on A will be 80 amps, the current on B will be 80 amps, but because the two loads are pulling currents on the C wire which are out of phase the resultant total current on C will be the vector sum rather than the arithmetic sum. Specifically 80 x (1.73 / 2) = 69. That gives you the same numbers as growler's calculation by watts (which includes the 1.73 factor that comes into the three phase wattage calculation for the same reason!)
Ok I'm following you somewhat. So since the two different loads on C are 120 degrees out of phase, you can't just add them together. I do recall the .866 mutilpier from either college or my apprenticeship but didn't remember its function. So basically if use my original sum of the loads and multiply by .866 then that will be the total current on the service conductors?