Re: To walk away or not
the problem with topics like this is that there is no "correct" answer. It is emotionally loaded like religion or politics and the beliefs are vested in feelings and personal anecdote. It may be possible to rationally come to some middle ground, but not with the personal and specific trying to become the norm.
Without trying to disprove the "ratters" and their argument for public safety, I grew up with the story of the German youth ratting on their parents and neighbors. This was publicly disgraced in both the American and world press and the political arena.
Every one knows that if you offer to help the police, you are considered a suspect, and then the police ask why didn't you come forward if you didn't initially. Informing or not is a "no-win" situation in many, many cases. Gossips and informers are socially viewed as biased against those informed on, as everyone knows that there are at least two sides to every story. Even with new laws to protect the careers of informers (public safety defects) their careers are usually ruined. Except for Linda Tripp's trip, this is true in many areas.
There was a pole that supported the high perch that I used to occupy to view others' travails, but it is worn smooth now from my slow-slipping, tight gripped descent. too smooth to reclimb, polished by the intensity of my grip (beliefs).
paul.