brian john
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growler said:One of the OPs problems is probably just the fact that he is young. It's easy for a 24 year old to look 20. I once worked for a young engineer that had to grow a beard and when I asked him why he showed me a picture without the whiskers ( it was Opy from Andy, yes, he looked about 16).
A young person really does have to prove themselves more than an older person. Me, I just point to my bald head and gray hair and tell them how long it took to get that way.
No matter how we look at it this is still a confidence game.
I was there once, having to prove my worth now at 56 I seem to garner more confidence from my peers.