No one here disputes the fact that the waveforms referenced to neutral of the A and B legs of a 240/120 split phase system are different, or why, or even what they look like. This thread is over 2300 posts of arguing over what to call it. Does it make any difference to an electrician wiring a house? Not in the slightest.
In my mind, inversion is not the same as 180 degree phase shift, although I stipulate that for an infinitely repeating pure sine wave the difference between the two is purely semantic. However, if you introduce a single, non repeating, short duration transient (which is terminologically triply redundant, I know) to the primary of that theoretical transformer with the A-N-B center tapped secondary, there is no value of phase shift that can be applied to the A terminal waveform referenced to N to make it look like the waveform at the B terminal referenced to N.
Doesn't happen when we assume pure sinusoids, although we get your drift.