Perhaps you can provide an official definition of "in phase". Meanwhile, I believe the statement from Tang's textbook will suffice.
I repeat, positive peaks can never coincide in a sinusoidal wave and its inverse, therefore, the two waves can never be in phase.
Let us look at it another way:
Let the expressions for the phases of the two waves be:
phi1 = (wt + phi0) for V1
phi2 = (wt + theta0) for V2
The waves are in phase if and only if phi0 = theta0
New let phi0 be zero and let theta0 = PI.
0 NE PI
Therefore
phi1 NE phi2
Are those waves in phase??
Now don't answer with another question. Just tell us how they can be in phase with phi0 NE theta0.
Simple. At the transformer, the winding's turn direction matches and phi 0 = theta 0. This should be obvious because 120(wt + phi) + 120(wt + theta) = 240(wt + phi).
To get phi 0 != theta 0 you have to reverse the polarity of the connection leads relative to the winding's turn direction. The transformer natively offers you two windings that are wound in the same direction.