This is a good question, and one that is worth getting through early in your career. But it is not easy to answer. The simplest answer to the question, ?why is 60 plus 60 plus 60 not 180? is that you are adding 60 of one thing to 60 of another thing and to 60 of still another thing. It is easy to think that ?60 amps? is the same as ?60 amps.? The problem is that by only saying ?60 amps? you are not giving a complete description. In order to understand the whole picture, you need to say that you are adding ?60 amps at a phase angle of 0 degrees? to ?60 amps at a phase angle of 120 degrees,? then adding the result to ?60 amps at a phase angle of 240 degrees.?
Now, to explain what is meant by phase angle is a bit beyond what I can easily do with words. Let me just give a hint, by saying that the voltage wave form of Phase A will reach its peak value 60 times every second, and so too will the voltage wave form of Phase B, and so too with the wave form of Phase C. They just don?t do it at the same time. They are spaced apart by one third of a cycle, one third of 360 degrees, or 120 degrees. To do more, I will need pictures.
The concept of ?potential? is not so hard. But I have to get back to work now. I?ll write something up, and post it later.