200410-1633 EDT
ptonsparly:
My answer to your question
"The question was: Can two identical relays share the same contact or pair of contacts to initiate the timer sequence? Whatever they may be."
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If timer means one timer with one input to initiate the timer, and a contact closure to that timer initiates the timer, then any combination of isolated contacts connected together in any combinatorial fashion to form the equivalent of one contact can initiate the timer. When that combination of contacts makes closure of the combination's output is determined by the logic of that combination. Those contacts can come from different sources, relays, switches, or other things.
When speaking of ordinary electromechanical relays it is usually assumed that each output contact pair is isolated from anything else until connected to something else. A contact pair is one switch. It takes two contacts to make one switch.
A slight disparity is that there are many relays with a SPDT type of contact structure where there are really three contacts which is really two contact pairs, one NO and the other NC sharing a common relay terminal.
I believe this answer is not correct for your question, and therefore I need a more precise description of the question.
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