again, i am not an EV owner, but i am designing Tesla dealerships (Sales, Service and Delivery Centers as they name them) and Tesla Collision Repair Centers ... what i read on the Internet about Tesla vehicles is that they have sensors that somehow communicate with the Tesla-branded chargers to automatically set the charge rate on the vehicles (at least on newer releases of their vehicles), but that relies on the charger being properly commissioned when it was installed. on the Tesla dealerships and collision centers, Tesla sends an employee to commission all of the charging stations and, i am told, they are set based on the amperage of the supply breaker. that is somehow communicated down the charging cord to the vehicle to get the correct charging rate set in the vehicle when it is connected. if this is not true, then i cannot understand how a given Tesla vehicle can charge from a NEMA 1450 receptacle in a repair facility (connected to a 50 amp 2 pole 208 volt circuit and delivering approximately 8.32 KW), then be driven to a residence and plugged into a NEMA 1450 receptacle fed from a 50 amp 2 pole 240 volt circuit and capable of delivering approximately 9.6 KW, then driven to an office building and plugged into a Tesla Generation 3 Wall Connector fed from a 60 amp 2 pole 208 volt circuit capable of delivering 9.6 KW, then driven to a supercharger station and plugged into a Tesla supercharger fed from a 600 amp 480 volt 3 phase circuit and capable of delivering up to [450 amps DC at up to 500 volts DC, maxing out at around 225 KW when using the "CCS2" or "GB" handle] or [350 amps DC at up to 500 volts DC, maxing out at around 175 KW when using the Tesla connecting handle] (these values straight from Tesla publications outlining their supercharger operations).
if charging is done based on a simple cord equipped with a 1450 plug on one end and a Tesla charging handle on the other end, plugged into a 1450 receptacle, i don't see how the charging rate can be set automatically. again, i admit that i don't own a Tesla or have first-hand understanding of how the charging rates are controlled on-vehicle, but if receptacle melting or circuit breaker tripping is being experienced, in my mind that is probably due to the wrong charging rate at the vehicle end of the circuit.