I kind of agree with you.
I think the bigger problem is people are not recognizing there is a difference between the terms grounded and grounding.
Bonded to me simply means to tie together, and we are usually talking about grounding conductors when we use the term.
I do agree that using the full term "equipment grounding conductor" seems to clarify things a little better, which I think the NEC does this pretty well, but many still only see the word "ground" in there and seem to disregard all the supporting text.
People seem to understand what is usually being talked about when you use the word "neutral" problem is there are things like corner grounded delta systems that still have a "grounded conductor" but do not have a "neutral". But the rules for this "grounded conductor" are the same as they are for a neutral in a system where the neutral is the "grounded conductor".