wouldnt you need to know all of the downstream recepts in order to verify that the power is dead when you press test button on upstream GFI. so your argument of "cant find it" it moot. allowing amps from one GFI'd ckt to the EGC of another GFI'd ckt will not trip the other GFI as the amps are on EGC and not passing through the other GFI.
AHJ's use 5- plugin testers, and the use of cheater is not in their book, etc. NEMA embraces use of "testers". is AHJ required to test downstream recepts via their 5- holes (downstream 1- cant be tested at the outlet using a "tester") ?? how do you verify a downstream recept doesnt have its EGC shorted to the N wire, would a plugin 5- have its little EGC 0.8mA light turn on if EGC was shorted to N, yet using plugin test button would not trip GFI, but pressing test button on upstream GFI would kill downstream power.
so to verify that 1- downstreams are protected by the upstream GFI, AHJ would need to attach a load to the 1- (light, fan, whatever) and then use test button of GFI. NEMA suggests using test button with a load attached.
the issue falls within GFCI's being 5- items, which imho should require EGC to be attached. downstream can be whatever, but if 5- downstream then EGC should be there, if not then it must be a 1-.
so, if the GFCI box included two small plastic barbed pins to block out EGC on faceplate, this would be better if the GFCI only had a 2-wire feed. hence, maker need not produce 1- faceplates, you can essentially convert a 5- into a 1- GFCI recept, etc. you can also put on your fav "no EGC" sticker, but not required at that point, its now a 1-, etc.