Unfortunately if you live in a state that allows a utility to dictate control over what we install on our side of the demark point we have very little that we can do to stop this kind of abuse, in these cases they have the right to refuse to supply you service if you don't meet their requirements, many of these laws are very new in a sense as they were adopted for cable utilities as the problem of signal leakage was affecting air traffic, Fire, and police radio bands, and all utilities was lumped into the laws not thinking that it would be abused as it is today, back when I first moved here the utility supplied the meter can and we installed it if they wanted a conduit ran to make their part of the installation easier they supplied it, because it was a system set up back before the cable laws were put on the book and utilities had to pay for something if they wanted it their way, back then if the cost was ours then we had the right to install what we chose as long as it met the codes we had to follow, after the cable laws were in place that gave the utilities the right to refuse service our utility got the idea they didn't have to supply us with the meters any more and stopped the practice but now they could dictate what we had to install by simply just refusing to hook us up.
Well a few of us independent contractors went after them and the Utility Commission and these laws because it violated our Constitutional right by taking away the right for us to chose what and how we installed it above and beyond what the NEC required when we and our customers were footing the bill, The state Attorney General sided with us and we won, and legislation was adopted that stopped this abuse, so the only way to stop this abuse is to get people together and fight it at state level, and a good start is first getting together with your states utility commission to see if they can make the changes as it is against the Constitution if the requirements dictated by the utility are baseless other then to make you install or do something in a more costly way that has no bases on safety, fire protection, or the protection of property, and just using the NEC with the fact that it also allows a different installation can be enough to over throw the requirement, the requirement to allow a cable company to refuse to hook up and or disconnect a service is (for a good reason) based on a safety hazard, but until you get the law changed they may or may not have the power to refuse service depending upon what your laws state and how they apply in your state.
This is why I have stated on here many times that knowing your state and local laws, including federal laws is as much important as knowing the NEC or the version as adopted by your state or local AHJ.