I run the backup “ag” well off a 3500 watt cheapo champion. I think it’s a 1.5 hp. Been a while since I installed it.
The main house at the ranch uses a 7500 watt inverter portable (because I still haven’t connected the 26kW Generac yet,
but that’s another story) and it runs the house plus the main well pump plus the pressure pump. I have to start the well house first, then add the rest, but it works fine. Lost power for 12 or 14 days straight last January.
As far as the redundant bond, while it is technically a violation, in real world use with a flexible power cord, the only alternative path is inside the flexible cord, so there is not really any actual danger. However, I always unbond the genny for my customers.