If you are in the power quality business, I would expect that you would see a number of problems...you would not normally see a job site unless they were experiencing problems of some sort, however as a percentage of the total number of electrical installations, the ones with harmonic problems would be very small.
As far as my mistrust of the industry "sales" engineers, a very large part of it can be traced to the extreme amount of misinformation that was provided on the part of the breaker companies to get the AFCIs in to the code. Some of what they said in the original ROPs and ROCs were outright lies. As a result of this I no longer trust any information from anyone who tells me I have a problem and I can sell you something to fix that problem. Almost all of the information about harmonic issues falls into this category.