mivey
Senior Member
childish behavior
childish behavior
Accusing people who are messy of being children and needing their mommies is a form of childishness in itself. It just makes you look odd to other people. You are not going to brow-beat and "shame" the rest of the world into being like you. If you are guilty of that, consider the following:
This is just an observation on how you look to some people. You can use it the next time you do a self-evaulation or ignore it, it makes no difference to me. If you want an on-line psych evaluation, the first visit is free: :grin:
People who resort to name-calling and belittling of others usually have some frustration that they can not get beyond by other means. It appears that you think everyone else should be as neat and orderly as you are and it irritates you that they are not. Well here is a reality check: it is not going to happen.
Messy people are adults, some with their own children. Resorting to childish tactics of name-calling and belittling is not going to change them because they just have a different set of priorities. They probably excel in other areas where you are lacking. They can be very meticulous in some areas and not in others. That is not necessarily good or bad, it is just the way it is.
Just my opinion, we welcome yours
[edit: and ditto growler's #79]
childish behavior
Accusing people who are messy of being children and needing their mommies is a form of childishness in itself. It just makes you look odd to other people. You are not going to brow-beat and "shame" the rest of the world into being like you. If you are guilty of that, consider the following:
This is just an observation on how you look to some people. You can use it the next time you do a self-evaulation or ignore it, it makes no difference to me. If you want an on-line psych evaluation, the first visit is free: :grin:
People who resort to name-calling and belittling of others usually have some frustration that they can not get beyond by other means. It appears that you think everyone else should be as neat and orderly as you are and it irritates you that they are not. Well here is a reality check: it is not going to happen.
Messy people are adults, some with their own children. Resorting to childish tactics of name-calling and belittling is not going to change them because they just have a different set of priorities. They probably excel in other areas where you are lacking. They can be very meticulous in some areas and not in others. That is not necessarily good or bad, it is just the way it is.
Just my opinion, we welcome yours
[edit: and ditto growler's #79]
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