I see what you mean George, if the dryer is grounded to Neutral then you would think it should trip the breaker if there is a ground fault at the dryer. The neutral is likely the source of the 46volts from unballanced loads and it is bonded to the frame. It sounds to me like the dryer is wired wrong. The dryer frame should be bonded to ground not neutral. Joe is an electrician so I am sure he will find the problem. Or I should say problems (the house).
I still say the washer is grounded somehow or people would not be getting poked.
I still say the washer is grounded somehow or people would not be getting poked.