ok. I think the whole install can be done with two breakers and a GFCI receptacle. One double pole GFCI twenty amp and one regular single pole twenty. No other breakers or disconnects needed.
Wire the pump relays as you describe. Under the two line screws of the filter relay, also put the hots from the gas heater. Heater 24v control wire to the PCB as normal.
Mount the GFCI receptacle in the Aqualink knockout. Feed the light relay from line of the GFCI receptacle. Under that light relay line screw, also put the hot lead to the computer power supply.
Alternately, feed the light relay from the protected (load) side of the receptacle. Then wire nut a short jumper wire to the power supply hot and stick that in the line side of the GFCI receptacle.
Parts and labor, I think that's as inexpensive as it gets.