... The two panels would not add up to over 180 amps after I split the loads.
Both or each?
The meter is on sight and will be 80 feet from the 2-200 amp panels.
Does this mean 80 feet away from the building?
Where is the current service disconnect located? Next to meter or the existing panel MCB, for example.
What is the planned service disconnect configuration and location?
I spoke with the county EMC who would hook to the transformer at the pole and they said parallel conductors wasn't standard practice so I would need to use single conductors which would be 500 copper or 900 AL XHHW.
Ask him if he's ever connected two services to one transformer (he likely has). If he admits to it, ask him how connecting parallel service conductors is any different.
Another question was weather this was going to be treated as residential or commerical, eather way its single phase.
Has a
Certificate
of Occupancy been issued? Will there be? That will tell you what the occupancy is considered.
Does anyone dwell there, such as the pastor, deacon, etc.? Could be a dual occupancy building. Only the local administration can answer this Q for certain.