weressl
Esteemed Member
I am a female sparky, i can only speak for myself, but it is hard to stay in a trade where
it seems the expectations of what i am capable of are set at a very low bar, even before i've had a chance to perform. Also, on most jobs i start , the foreman usually assumes i am an apprentice. Tasks given to me are usually meticulous, redundant or outright stereotypical(i.e., sweeping, cleaning up piles of scrap, etc.), so the experience i
have aquired is not as complete as most electricians that are of the opposite gender.
All that being said, i still have been lucky with a couple of mentors that taught me so
very much and had faith in my ability. I love my trade, and each job i approach with a
positive attitude, and i have certainly had some jobs i loved, others, not so much. But
i believe strongly that the knowledge one should aquire in the trades is completely incumbant upon that person, so i read all these threads, and take classes when i can, and
go to the next job with a positive outlook, eager to work and learn. It was easy getting in
the trade, very difficult to stay in. Also, all female construction workers are not lesbians,
even if they do turn you down for a date!
One main difference perhaps is the emotional makeup difference between man and woman. I know it sounds stereotyping, but it is a pretty well established fact. Due to the physiological difference between man and woman, namely that women is 'designed' to bear and raise children, they are much more emotionally relate to anything they do than men does. Just see the comment: "I love my job" and ask man and women what does that actually mean to them.
So I would venture to guess that when you are emotionally invested in the work you do and do not get the emotional reward you seek, you would get pretty discouraged. Man sees it as and competes in work. Weather is to beat another man or beat technolgy itself is his game. The competition is akin to contest and its most severe from is war.