The least expensive way is to eliminate those disconnects, unless your AHJ interprets that meter post as being a structure, then 230.70 might require a main out at the meter. EDIT: Or the utility requires a main there.
The size of the wire before the meter is probably per NESC by utility and after the meter NEC, per the calculated load.
The size of the wire before the meter is probably per NESC by utility and after the meter NEC, per the calculated load.