Look at the land mass. Why do we drive more SUVS and Trucks? We have more land mass. I don't know what countries your referring to but the US is the 3rd or 4th largest by land mass. So putting things underground in our country vs Germany or France etc.... We have states larger than those countries. That matters. Its the same reason why all houses don't have fiber, nat gas, city water, and sewer. When things get spread out its less cost effective. I would bet if you took all of our underground infrastructure and totaled up the area it covers, it would be greater than what ever country you are referring to. Why do cities all have subways but urban areas don't. Same concept of cost per consumers served. Again we are not against underground utility where it makes sense. Many new developments are installed underground but converting the whole system is wildly different and simply an academic wish.
What does economic prosperity have to do with it? Perhaps the freedom to choose through a free market is also a factor. I am not getting political I am just saying what others have said. If you give people a choice and tell them it will cost them a few bucks more per month they would be for it. If you tell them it will cost a hundred a month more but it will be more reliable and there will be less outages people say screw it Ill take the occasional inconvenience. Politicians who try to buck this learn the the public views the electrical reliability as sufficient.
Those who live in areas where its more than an inconvenience also make choices. They either move or buy a generator. We all have choices. I think you answered your own question there. That addresses that ridiculous meme above with the 16 feeders and the mansion. The person in the mansion is smarter. They realize they can accomplish the same thing at a fraction of the cost. Buy a generator for 20k or pay to install 16 feeders underground.
Economic prosperity has everything to do with it? The US is the richest country on earth, yet has one of the cheapest distro systems on earth. Many antiquated.
On the other hand countries with less wealth, some with no wealth, have managed to bury their lines.
No one can deny this, clearly I think they have discovered some method that in the least lowers capitol cost to the point such countries can afford it in the first place.
Using the NEC as an example there is a reason why most countries don't want to use it. IF they were forced to use it, they wouldn't be able to afford electrification as it would become to costly. Most can't afford a system that is 2-6 times larger than it needs to be. Yet everyone is technically paying for it without knowing it in the United States.
Regarding land size, that is correct, but at an east coast level New Jersey is actually way more dense per acre of land than most EU cities. Most other places are just as dense if not more per MW per acre.
30 million people moving is not practical. Installing a generator at each property is not practical, though personally fun to think about. Though in truth it looks like people are paying the for the lack of undergrounding one way or another cosnidering how many more places have a generator these days. Fuel, maintenance, installation and the set itself at your local stores, amazon warehouse, car dealer, ect are being payed for by the consumer.
Its not to ridiculous when those 16 feeder cables also serve 45,000 other customers. Not just the power bill from the mansion, but the bills from the local Tesla plant, municipal complex, mall, amusement park, Amazon delivery system, hospitial, local college, data center, farms, ect. Everyone has access to reliable power with no downtime.