I think you are making the the false association that Economic prosperity means a country should be better in all ways and since you think underground is better then the more economically prosperous US should have Underground. You are disregarding choice. A millionaire can choose to drive a less expensive used car that requires normal maintenance even though they could afford a brand new car.
What I am saying is the US population is content with the current system given its costs. You can say 500,000 people are without power because of a storm. You can tell me all 300 million lost power for 6 months. I don't care the fact of the matter is the reliability of the electrical grid is acceptable to the people given the cost. If it wasn't then you would see the politicians and the general public talking about it daily. The major failures are often the result of lack of maintenance and stupid decisions made by people. Not the fact that powerlines are above ground. You see and hear more about health care and the world will end in 10 years (
AOC) then the electrical grid. I am not saying its perfect and I am not saying it cant be improved for a fair low cost. I am saying its serves its purpose well given the cost and the public in general does not have an issue with its reliability.
You can have the opinion that it could be better, and frankly I agree it probably would be better on balance if it was all undergound but that grossly discounts the cost vs the gain. If people lost power like they lost cell service in the late 90s you would definitely see people support a more costly change. Instead what do you see. People switching over their cars to electric with full confidence they can charge at home. Peoples actions speak louder and their actions say the grid is reliable at an acceptable cost.
One area I would agree with underground utilities that you haven't mentioned is physical security. I am not sure I should say this but imagine a scenario where a small distributed group of people coordinated a simultaneous attack on substations across the country. Shooting insulators on transformers and and distribution lines simultaneously. You could feasibly take the grid down with a couple hundred people or less. I think that deserves more attention than thunderstorm outages. People expect them like they expect traffic jams. Nuisance, wasted time and energy but part of life. People don't expect and don't want a complete failure.