Speaking from the point of view of a customer, if I had more money than sense and wanted to 'exceed the NEC', there are many things that I would specify, and soldering connections is _not_ one of them.
The below are not in order of priority (nor reasonableness!)
I would specify metallic wiring methods, eg. EMT or MC cable.
I would specify increased size for all circuits, limiting voltage drop to 2% at full circuit trip rating at the furthest load.
I would specify design for future expansion, including the use of wire chases in the structure to ease adding new circuits, or the use of conduit wiring methods.
I would specify much larger junction and device boxes. For example I might specify a minimum box volume of twice the NEC requirements.
I would specify lighting circuits separate from receptacle circuits.
I would specify three way switching for bedroom lighting, with one switch by the door, and one by the bed.
I would specify 'spec grade' devices for all switches and receptacles.
I would specify an inspection of each and every device and connection, to be performed by another electrician (could be a different electrician from the same company), in addition to the AHJ inspection. This would include continuity and isolation checks to confirm that no circuits are crossed and no neutrals are tied to ground.
I would specify copper service entrance conductors and feeders.
I would specify separate circuits for all 'media centers' 'computer work stations',etc.
I would specify a _separate_ small appliance branch circuits for each 48" of counter space.
I would specify that no GFCI feed downstream receptacles, except adjacent receptacles in a 'quad' arrangement.
I would specify that no 'quickwire style' push in splices or terminations be used.
I would specify the use of 'set screw' wire nuts.
I would specify the use of traceable torque measuring tools for all splices.
I would specify the use of a copper CEE for the grounding electrode in addition to all other required grounding and bonding.
I would specify bonding of all metalling plumbing, piping, steel studs, etc, even if such is not likely to be energized.
I don't believe that any of these things are _required_, and that only some of these things are good design (good design meaning 'better' and 'better enough to be worth the money'), but that if I were trying to sell a 'better than NEC' electrical system, I'd want things from the above list, and not irreversible splices!
P.S. Does ERICO make a mold for #12 Cu?
-Jon