"then more resistive load will make R decrease"
how's that? only two ways to make a load look more resistive. add R, or decrease jX
R is fixed in a motor, so that doesnt really change as to load down the motor. but you mention decreasing jX (is that what you mean by "i")? decreasing jX means less total Z means more amps, this more real power, but, decreasing jX means Q decreases. is there another term in Z not accounted for here?
i'm still listening.
The R that is changing is in fact a parallel R component of the input Z.
X can decrease without Q of the inductor changing at all.
Example:
1. One ohm in parallel with an inductor that has an X value of 1 and a series R value of zero. The resultant Z is NOT R + jX.
It is R || jX = 1 || j, which is 1/(1/1 + 1/j)
That will be 1/(1 -j), which is (1+j)/(1+j)(1-jX) = (1+j)/2 = 1/2 + j/2
2. Infinite ohms in parallel with that same inductor.
Z = 1/(1/infinity + 1/j) = 1/(0 + 1/j) = j.
By decreasing R (case 1) and keeping X constant we have increased the ratio of the resistive term of Z to the inductive term of Z by comparison to case 2. And the j term got smaller just by decreasing R.
The R in R+ jX is not fixed for a motor. The series resistance that is part of the inductor is fixed, but the dynamic resistance is NOT fixed.
You can have an R component in Z even for an ideal motor as long as it is loaded.