I really don't care what your past experiences are, though I still give you some benefit of doubt that you do know something because of your experiences. The average consumer doesn't care either, they just want things to work and in general have no idea what is safe and what isn't. Then they get all these recalls on products that were supposed to be safe and it just worsens their confidence in what is manufactured, I talking about all consumer products not specifically electrical products here.
Maybe these AFCI products are what you say they are, I really don't know. Most of us that are the link between the manufacturer, code and end user are being pulled in multiple directions because in our installer world, they mostly create "nuisance" and extra expense, at least that is what the consumers are seeing. You need to convince the final user they are worthwhile before you will make our life easier. I don't see that happening during my lifetime. I am sold on effectiveness and benefits of GFCI technology, but still have a hard time convincing users of why it is necessary, now I have to push something that even I don't fully understand to the end user, this is a major reason I don't get much excitement on residential work and have limited what I do for residential work ever since this State finally dropped their amendments that did remove AFCI requirements. Last NEC we amended to eliminate AFCI was 2005. Once 2008 was adopted AFCI's were part of it and as written in the code. We were behind the rest of the county with troubles that are out there because not many were using them and gaining any experience with issues that others elsewhere already knew about.
I don't see AFCI's like UFO's, the U is unidentified, AFCI's were made by man, somebody knows what was put into them. They may have overlooked some issues in their design though. If Eaton, Schneider, Siemens, etc. all know about the debates here they why don't they join the debates and present what they have? They will either expose what some think is true or will actually educate us on what they have, until they do, they do appear to be hiding. I imagine they have taken some steps in a good direction, but forcing consumers to use something that isn't exactly proven to do it's function, or do it reliably is not popular among consumers either. There has to be some middle ground that is suitable for a majority.
I believe in codes as well, but doesn't mean I agree with everything that is in those codes. As with any democratically obtained sets of rules there are going to be some that don't totally agree with the final results, and every individual's wants and needs are different.
Assuming these devices are what they are all cracked up to be, what assurance do we have that after they are 25-40 years old that they still protect the wiring that is likely starting to develop some of the problems they are supposed to protect us against?